'This is what I found when I looked at the missing manual but it only works if you've already started a romance with her because if you haven't then you can't break up with her to lose approval. Do her quest, and after a some time you can ask her about Marjorlie (or however it was spelled) and one of the options is mentioning 'was she special to you?', choose that then proceed until you can tell her 'I wish I was special.etc.' and presto, sex scene. Repeat 2 until you get ambushed. You get her personal quest. 5. She should start up a conversation with the lines 'You know, I lied.'. 4. Go to a destination on the map, then return to camp. (Also, do this if no. See if one of the conversation options is about 'Orleis'. Break up with her if you gifted up her for romance. 2.

Hope this said: ' There is an easy fix for that particular problem. If you pick the right choice out of the dialogue tree there (I forget what one it is) and continue to be nice to her she will invite you into her tent and you will be rewarded with awkward digital sex. Then she mentions something about it being a long time since she left Lothering. I know that to sleep with Liliana you need her at 100 approval, which I think is max.

When she talks about the birds in the woman's hair you respond with the 'Dear Maker!' choice, which I think leads into the 'Do you prefer the company of other women choice?' which then leads to 'I might giggle and look coy.' After that the romance should be started, you get a good amount of approval, and oddly enough I got a few points of approval out of Allister as well (that pig). You need to respond with the one that is like 'my hair.um thanks.' I think that's the first choice.

I don't know what is required for the male PC, but for the female PC I know to start the Leliana romance you need at least +50 approval and then in camp she will bring up a dialogue tree, which is one time only, where she says that she really likes how you wear your hair.

As I understand it the options to start the romance and move it to the next level are one time only and need to be answered very specifically, or you can't advance the romance, or get it. Well this is the first time I have heard of certain dialogue options and the personal quest being closed off if you jack approval too high with gifts, it sounds to me like you might have screwed up in the dialogue tree.

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